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"my garlic keeps burning before the onions soften?? every. single. time."
R @ritaeats taught 41 cooks
onions first, garlic last! garlic only needs ~30 seconds. you're not doing it wrong — everyone learns this the smoky way 💛
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"is my sourdough starter dead or just… sulking?"
N @nonnalucia taught 89 cooks
sulking! grey liquid on top = hungry, not dead. pour it off, feed it, warm spot, give it two days. starters are drama queens.
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why did my rice go gluey?

@justjoon · asked tuesday, 6:42pm · attached to their bibimbap post

Followed the recipe exactly — 2 cups rice, 3 cups water, medium heat. Ended up with something between porridge and wallpaper paste. It still tasted fine?? But I wanted distinct grains. What am I missing?

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@marisolcooks rice-cooker-in-chief · 12 min later

Not missing anything big — this is the most common rice thing ever! Two likely culprits: you didn't rinse (surface starch = glue) or the ratio's off for your pot. Rinse until the water runs almost clear, 3–4 times. That alone fixes it 80% of the time. 🌾

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@kofi.inthe.kitchen learned this last year! · 31 min later

Adding on to Marisol — once it's cooking, stop stirring! I used to stir mine like risotto (because a video told me to 😅) and stirring releases even more starch. Lid on, lowest heat, walk away for 15, then rest 10 with the lid still on. The rest is the secret part.

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@halmoni_soo 40 yrs of rice, zero certificates · 1 hr later

Everyone above is right. One more thing, from my grandmother to yours: forget measuring cups — water to the first knuckle above the rice, every pot, every stove, every country. And gluey rice is not a failure. We call that day "porridge day" and add an egg. 🥚

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update from @justjoon: rinsed 4 times, didn't touch it, knuckle method — PERFECT GRAINS. you're all invited to bibimbap night. 🍚❤️
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